A lot of good well-meaning guys fail miserably at getting the girl they deserve…
Just because they don’t know what to do or what to say to develop attraction in her.
So I wanted to write this article for all those guys out there, who deserve the hottest women in the world…but don’t know how to attract girls over text.
Here are 3 simple steps you can begin to use tonight to get the attraction sparked.
3 steps How to Attract Girls Over Text.
#1. You can’t attract girls over text if you don’t know how to initiate the conversation the RIGHT way.
If you can’t start a conversation the right way, it will fizzle and die quickly. The ins and outs of a text dialogue are critical to keeping her engaged. The problem is, most guys never study this because they’re so busy dealing with life, work, family, and tons of other problems.
The easiest way to engage a woman in conversation is to have tons of surefire texts you can send her, that will open the conversation in a positive way EVERY time.
Ive actually created a cheat sheet for this. It’s called the 67 Best Text Message Openers. Just copy paste and send any of these for instant success.
#2. You can’t learn how to attract girls over text if you don’t ask questions.
A lot of guys make the mistake of taking TOO much.
As a guy, we don’t want there to be silence while texting. Because we tend to think that Silence = Ignoring. So to combat that, we text and text and text about anything we can think of…Because we think that will keep her engaged.
In reality, you’re doing yourself a huge disservice by doing this. Girls see guys who keep talking and won’t give her the chance to talk as
Plus, you’ll never learn anything about HER if you never ask her the right questions. The right kinds of questions aren’t close ended questions like,
“Do you like ice cream”?
Those are called close ended questions. (Questions that can be answered with a yes or no) Instead you want to ask her “Open ended” questions.
Questions that make her think…when she can’t just give a standard answer to something you ask, she has to take the time to formulate her response to you. This means she’s focused on you for a longer period of time. Slowly, this focus on you turns into attraction.
#3. You can’t learn how to attract girls over text if you can’t engage her.
Your focus in every conversation you have with her should be to take her on a mental journey somewhere with you. I call it a virtual vacation.
For example. If a girl is at work, the last thing you want to text her is,
“How is your day going”
How creative is that? You should NEVER send these bland generic overused texts. These will get you put in the “GENERAL GUY” Category.
When I say “engage” her, I mean engage the part of her mind where she has FUN.
By asking the right questions you’ll figure out what she likes to do, her hobby, her likes, and her dreams. Use these and sprinkle them in the conversation to take her somewhere she wants to be.
For example. If you know she likes Capretti’s Italian restauraunt, and you know she’s at work,
You can text something like.
“Imagine yourself at Capretti’s right now on a Friday night, eating cannoli that’s fresh out of the oven, nice and steamy with just the right amount of spice, while you’re wearing your favorite outfit….”
She will taste the food, and feel the heat from it as she closes her eyes and shuts off work and follows you on a virtual vacation. She will love you for it and look to you for positivity.
There you have it, 3 ways how to attract girls over text that you can start doing tonight.
If you’re having problems getting the conversation started, then you should check out my cheat sheet The 67 BEST Text Message Openers.